Overcoming Doubt: My Journey from Traditional to Modern Coaching

The journey from traditional to modern coaching methods can be challenging, marked by doubts and external pressures. The author faced criticism and initial struggles with players but found success through community support, focus on real-game scenarios, and education. Ultimately, perseverance led to improved player performance and confidence in contemporary coaching approaches.

Making the leap from traditional coaching methods to modern, evidence-based approaches isn’t easy. I know because I’ve lived it.

When I first started questioning the conventional drills I had been taught—basket feeds, technical models, repetition without context—I felt like an outsider. My coaching peers dismissed my ideas. Parents questioned whether I even knew how to teach technique. And at times, I doubted myself.

But through experience, persistence, and surrounding myself with like-minded coaches, I worked through the struggles and came out stronger. If you’re on the fence about stepping away from traditional coaching, I want to share my journey—because chances are, you’re facing the same challenges I did.


My Struggles: Three Challenges I Had to Overcome

1. Feeling Like an Outsider in a Traditional Coaching Environment

When I first moved to Batchwood, I quickly realized I was different from the other coaches.

  • I wasn’t obsessed with “perfect technique.”
  • I didn’t rely on endless basket feeding.
  • I wasn’t standing behind players, giving constant explicit instructions.

And for that, I was mocked, dismissed, and isolated.

Other coaches would watch my sessions and snicker from the sidelines. They told me I didn’t know how to teach technique. Parents asked why my players weren’t standing in lines, shadow swinging, or performing robotic footwork patterns.

I started to doubt myself. Maybe I was doing it wrong. Maybe I should go back to the old ways.

But deep down, I knew I was on the right path. So instead of folding under pressure, I sought out other coaches who were challenging the status quo. Connecting with like-minded professionals gave me the confidence to stay true to my philosophy—and as the results started showing, the criticism faded.


2. Players Struggled at First—And I Felt the Pressure

When I moved away from static drills and into CLA, it wasn’t smooth sailing at first.

  • My players missed more shots.
  • Rallies were scrappy, unpredictable, and messy.
  • Parents wanted immediate success, not long-term development.

There were moments when I thought, Is this really working?

But then, something clicked.

After a few weeks, my players stopped freezing up in matches. They weren’t trying to “perform” a perfect stroke anymore—they were playing the game.

  • They adapted to different opponents.
  • They made smart tactical decisions.
  • They played with confidence, not hesitation.

The breakthrough came when I stopped chasing aesthetic perfection and started focusing on what actually transfers to matches. That was the moment I truly committed to modern coaching.


3. Standing My Ground with Parents and Players

One of the hardest parts of modern coaching is convincing others it works—especially parents.

I can’t count the number of times a parent has said:

  • “Why aren’t they doing more drills?”
  • “Their technique doesn’t look like Federer’s.”
  • “They need more structured training.”

It would have been easy to give in and start basket feeding again just to keep everyone happy.

But I refused.

Instead, I started educating parents on the science behind skill acquisition—explaining why real-game environments lead to better long-term development than static repetition.

And once the results started to show—when their kids became better decision-makers, stronger competitors, and more adaptable athletes—the questions stopped.


How I Overcame These Challenges

Looking back, the biggest things that helped me push through the doubt were:

✅ Surrounding myself with like-minded coaches. Finding a community of coaches who also believed in modern methods gave me the confidence to keep going.
✅ Trusting the long-term process. The early struggles were tough, but once I saw real match-play improvements, I knew I was on the right path.
✅ Building my own coaching resource. I spent hours scrolling, reading, and researching. Eventually, I built MyTennisCoaching.com—a place where I could store my best session plans, videos, and learning resources to make coaching more efficient and effective.


Want to Fast-Track Your Own Coaching Transformation?

I know firsthand how tough it is to break away from traditional coaching. The doubts, the resistance, the pressure to conform—it’s all part of the journey.

But you don’t have to go through it alone.

If you’re ready to:
✅ Move away from outdated, ineffective drills.
✅ Coach in a way that actually transfers to match play.
✅ Stop second-guessing yourself and feel confident in your methods

👉 Book a Single Mentoring Session today, and let’s work through it together.

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Change isn’t easy, but trust me—it’s worth it.

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        About the Author

        Written by Steve Whelan

        Steve Whelan is a tennis coach, coach educator, and researcher with 24+ years of on-court experience working across grassroots, performance, and coach development environments. His work focuses on how players actually learn, specialising in practice design, skill transfer, and ecological dynamics in tennis.

        Steve has presented at national and international coaching conferences, contributed to coach education programmes, and published work exploring intention, attention, affordances, and representative learning design in tennis. His writing bridges academic research and real-world coaching, helping coaches move beyond drills toward practices that hold up under match pressure.

        He is the founder of My Tennis Coaching and My Tennis Coach Academy, a global learning community for coaches seeking modern, evidence-informed approaches to player development.

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